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Maybe it’s the short skirts that are the problem.

Started by amybaby · 10 months ago

The other day I was telling someone about how I’ve become friends with an ex and that it’s the most relaxed and easy friendship I have right now.  He pointed out that it’s probably because he’s not trying to jump my bones.  And I think he% ... Continue reading »

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  • Charlie

    10 months ago

    You got it all wrong...

    Girls separate friends and romance... it's two completely different feelings for them. For guys, it's very heavily tied together, not because I want to sleep with all of my friends, but because the same reasons why I want to be friends with them are the same reasons I want to sleep with them.

    I mean, if I have a friend that is super cool, curious, exciting, funny, passionate, etc... name me a good reason why I would not want to sleep with her? Would I look back in 20 years and say, boy, what a bad idea it was to sleep with that super cool, curious, exciting, funny, passionate girl? Hell, the people that made it through whatever friend filters I have are exactly the kind of people I should be sleeping with.

    And yes, girls can be friends with people they've slept with in the past... and of course, by definition, with people it didn't work out with, only b/c then you'd still be going out with them.

    If I meet a girl and I think that she's absolutely not the kind of girl I'd ever sleep with... why would I wanna be friends with her? And attraction is not the key here, because for me personally, with reason, I'm attracted to a wide range of types, conventional and otherwise, and much more focused on personality. Everyone looks the same in the dark.
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  • Kate Muthafuckin Carr

    8 months ago

    Are you saying Brendan Hall wants to jump your bones?

    Also, your blog on "Imagine" seems to be totally in conflict with your plan to starve all the children in Africa. Just sayin'.
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